A close friend of mine is going through a divorce right now. S is a beautiful, intelligent person with a great personality. And yet, her husband has issues with her and decides to walk out. They knew each other since they were 12. They were together for 4 years. They were married for 2 years. 2 years! Why? It's so frustrating that something that should take up the rest of your life (marriage) can only last 2 years. D and I tried helping S realise the issues behind his decision. She blames herself for having security issues. She felt insecure with him. I'd like to think his actions caused her to feel that way. She defends him saying that I can't blame him for the way she feels! I only agree to a certain extent, but his behaviour drives her to feel that way. He's manipulative, sneaky and a flirt. Sigh* he even used to flirt with me and I told him numerous times that he should not be talking that way especially when his wife is my friend.
S on the other hand has good days and bad days. She would still give him a chance if he came back. From an outsider's perspective, "how could she be so stupid to want him back after all he's done to her?" But it's easier said than done. I totally understand how she feels. I myself still have an attachment to a certain bastard! Thang God I have good frens who support me no matter what. D is the reality check, she says it as it, she tells you you're dumb to your face. If I need to cry, J is there to support me. She's always had my back. I don't know how I would survive if I didn't have frens like these. So here's to good frens who are there for better or worse....Luv ya guys.
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