Have you ever considered someone your soulmate? This is usually something the fairer sex will be able to relate to. How many have said that they've found their soulmate in their first boyfriends? hehehe, oh the young and naive. I've never said anyone was my soulmate till now. That's why I truly believe I have found it!
What is a soulmate? How do you know if that person is your soulmate? Is there a set of criteria that defines one to be your soulmate? I don't know! All I know is, I have found mine! How do I know (s)he is my soulmate? I think it's like when you find 'THE ONE' (disclaimer:I have yet to find 'THE ONE' though). 'THE ONE' would prolly be someone you wanted to spend your whole life with, till death do you part, the moment your eyes met you knew and s*it like that. The idealist in me agrees that its IDEEEEEAL....that 'THE ONE' is also your soulmate but in this instance its not!
There's a connection you both feel that transcends the ordinary. It's like you are connected at a different level. The bond and chemistry is simply unbelievable. It may sound like cr*p and I used to think that it was cr*p until I admitted to my proud self that - I have found my soulmate! What makes me so sure that (s)he is my soulmate? They don't have to know the color of my eyes or what size shoes I wear. It's beyond that. Do you know how it is when a person calls your name and you know what they are going to say next? Or exchanging glances and immediately know what the other person is thinking? Or when you think of them and immediately they call; cos they were just thinking of you? Or sitting in silence and not feel like there's a need to say anything to fill the silence? Or actually feel the other person's pain, happiness, anger, frustrations? From the moment you met, you knew, you just knew that there was something unexplainable (which may have initially been confused with falling in 'lau'). You can totally be yourself with that person and vice versa. You were never friends, it started off as "more than friends"!
It is a wonderful feeling. It's better than being in love. Really. There's no preconceived expectations, you don't need to fulfill any expectations or be disappointed cos your own expectations were not met. It's just truly open and accepting of each other. The good, the bad, all rolled into one. And you also know for a fact that no one can come in between the 2 of you, not even 'THE ONE' (if it's not the same person). Space and time does absolutely nothing to the relationship. You don't have to see each other for years but when you do, you pick up from where you left off just as if it was 2 minutes ago. You can express emotions that you would otherwise not even think about with this person. Gosh I can go on and on and on....but I will stop now. To my soulmate, (who does not have access to my blog - (s)he doesn't need it) here's to you!!!
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